Two couples from Oregon who maintain a polyamorous relationship decided to live together the four of them. After a while, both women became pregnant almost in the same period, but they do not know who is the father of each child. “We don’t know and we don’t want to knowWe said that we would all be parents to all of them.”they expressed.
Taya and Sean Hartless and Alysia and Tyler Rogers were two couples who met in 2019 through social networks.
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According to what they said, at first it was difficult for them to accept the love they had felt for each other, but finally they ended up admitting it and moved into the same house.
Taya counted in the South West News Service that, since moving in together, they are all co-parents of the children, making up “one big family unit.”
In addition, he assured that none of them have appointments with other people outside the home. The four of them try to meet at least once a month together and have a few one-on-one dates from time to time. Also, the two women have their own room and night after night the men rotate from room to room.
The couple of the Hartless and the Rogers already had a child each separately and now the children, according to what Taya expressed, They say “proudly” dad to the two men and mom to the two women.
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The family agreement
After Alysia and Taya became pregnant, the first in August 2020 and the second in March 2021, they all they agreed that they would not question whose baby it was. “We don’t know and we don’t want to know, we said we would all be parents to all of them,” explained Taya, who takes care of all the little ones while Alysia, Tyler and Sean work.
“People ask, ‘Does it make any difference if you’re not biologically mine?’ I stayed home with him since he was a few months old and it won’t change my relationship with him one bit if we were biologically connected. It is very easy for me to love a child of any of the people I love, that is the same for all children, “added the young woman.
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The opinion of others
Within his inner circle, there were people who did not understand his way of understanding and living love. Despite this, the four, in the long run, received the support of most of their loved ones.
“A lot of people don’t really understand polyamory and they think is deviant or harmful somehow. It is true that it was not always easy, it took me a while to admit that I had feelings for another person, and definitely sometimes we get jealous”, admitted the young woman, although she assures that her children live their relationship in a “natural” way.
In addition, the woman maintained: “I don’t think we will ever stop learning and we know that our relationship will constantly change. But we’ll go ahead and make it work. We’re different from everyone else, but that’s okay, and We have made it clear to our children that they can be whoever they want to be.”