Unbelievable, but true: the queen of splits now only spreads her arms wide.

Unbelievable, but true: the queen of splits now only spreads her arms wide.

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Winter holidays, which after the New Year’s chaos for the stars, stretch until the end of January, not everyone has a usual scenario. Either the vacation euphoria makes itself felt, or the holidays coincided with upheavals in his personal life, but some of the heroes in the Instagram feed are simply not recognizable. How the celebrities surprised us, and what their tricks really mean, Kp.ru analyzed together with a psychologist, professor and doctor of cultural sciences Andrei Zberovsky.

Psychologist Andrei Zberovsky deciphered the secret signals of celebrities.

Psychologist Andrei Zberovsky deciphered the secret signals of celebrities.

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GRIGORY LEPS IN ACTIVE SEARCH

The 59-year-old musician begins a new life after a divorce from his young wife Anna Shaplykova, who, according to rumors, went to an even younger lover, a fashion model. “Leps lost weight and, like any self-respecting divorced woman, made a square and a photo session,” they joke on the Web about the artist’s fresh pictures, in which he appeared with a playful pigtail, without the usual jacket and white shirt.

An unexpected photo session by Grigory Leps.

An unexpected photo session by Grigory Leps.

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Psychologist’s comment:

– A person is in the process of choosing a new image. The very fact that Leps demonstrates a half-naked body to society suggests that he wants to convince everyone and, above all, himself of his own attractiveness and competitiveness in the market for grooms. The singer shows, as they say, the product with his face. Why not? For his age, he is in great shape, there is nothing vulgar in his photo shoot. I do not exclude that this is a signal to the ex-wife: they say, she shouldn’t have rushed to leave and write her husband as an older man. She shouldn’t think that he is capable of modernization.

I don’t see even a hint of depression here; after the divorce, Leps did not leave to lick his wounds. On the contrary, Gregory is ready to compete and create a new pair. He is not ashamed of anything, cheerful and handsome. His new look is a signal to brides that they are ready to be creative and push boundaries. Leps in active search.

ANASTASIA VOLOCHKOVA GATHERED … IN POLITICS

The ballerina is no longer recognized not only by fans, but also by numerous spiteful critics: after meeting a new boyfriend Sergei, whom Volochkova took away from under the bride’s nose in the show “Let’s Get Married”, she spreads only her arms widely, and much more appeared in her collection of micro-swimsuits. closed models. And this despite the fact that the star is resting in her beloved Maldives, where she used to arrange sensational photo sessions with pebbles on her naked body and measured the length of the islands in twines. In addition, Anastasia, who has been harassed more than once, staged a live broadcast on Instagram for the first time, opened comments and instead of “good people” began to call subscribers dear friends.

Volochkova blossomed with a new groom.  And she covered her legs.

Volochkova blossomed with a new groom. And she covered her legs.

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Psychologist’s comment:

– Previously, showing companions with emoticons on their faces to the public, the ballerina indicated that she was surrounded by male attention, but this strategy does not mean a serious relationship. Now the changes are obvious: the process of selecting a partner for Volochkova has been completed – she made up her mind and moved from a search to stability. The length of the dress and the absence of twines indicate that the ballerina is happy with her choice and relationship.

Previously, psychologists interpreted avoiding aggressive positioning solely as a willingness to create a family. But I suppose that Anastasia is ready for more ambitious changes – for example, a change of role, the development of a new field. Perhaps she will be engaged in social activities or even politics. After all, when a woman hides the details of a figure that she used to proudly show, this is a sign: “I have other talents and abilities.” Surely, Volochkova and her PR specialists have already developed a plan for a radical change in course, so we are waiting for surprises.

GARIK KHARLAMOV SUFFERS IN A NEW ROMAN

The joker and the merry fellow, on whose page only jokes and memes had appeared before, scared the fans with a picture under a dropper. It turned out that the comedian had flu and fever under 40. Why did he complain to subscribers, he himself did not understand: “I have never had a fast with a temperature of 39.6. What comes to my mind? Nothing at all, except for a strange desire to publish it here. Why do I need it? Why did I do it? ” By the way, Kharlamov’s new girlfriend, actress Ekaterina Kovalchuk was not seen nearby: at that moment she was drinking champagne and filming funny videos …

Garik Kharlamov frightened the people with a picture under a dropper.

Garik Kharlamov frightened the people with a picture under a dropper.

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Psychologist’s comment:

– I am very worried that a man who demonstratively builds a new relationship after a divorce suddenly takes and demonstrates loneliness. This is what his post on Instagram shouts about. Where is the beloved, who should be on duty at the patient’s bedside and serve him tea with raspberries? This is exactly what happens in loving couples. Even if a man categorically refuses help and care, shouts that he will overcome the disease himself, it is really important for him that the woman is there, even against his will. But Kharlamov and his girlfriend are breaking the traditional template. Frankly, for a psychologist, the most pessimistic conclusions are being drawn here: it seems that Garik did not find happiness, comfort and emotional warmth in a new relationship. Indeed, in difficult periods of life, we should not demonstrate loneliness.

We are used to thinking that emotions in relationships are vivid impressions: here we are drinking champagne, dancing, riding in a convertible … But emotions in trouble are even more important: we need support and love. After all, a person recovers, but the sediment remains. And in the future this will certainly fall into the piggy bank of claims.

OLGA BUZOVA: BAD GIRLS ARE GLAD EVERYWHERE, AND GOOD ONLY IN HEAVEN

Holidays in Courchevel threw off the mask with the singing presenter. After the scandal with Dmitry Guberniev and “cognac in the morning” Buzova with particular scrupulousness cleaned out any hints of alcohol on her 23 millionth Instagram. And suddenly sobriety seemed to disappear from her page: intoxicated Olya performs “Katyusha”, dances on autopilot and barely moves along the road to the spa center. And if libations on vacation can be understood, then why show dubious shots is a big question …

Olga Buzova herself posted her drunken dances and other "dirt" on Instagram.

Olga Buzova herself posted her drunken dances and other “dirt” on Instagram.

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Psychologist’s comment:

– Fans have not forgotten that before the New Year, Olga Buzova crossed paths with her ex-husband at a party and gave him a public rebuke from the stage. This event cannot be disregarded: Olya received a powerful emotional shock and has not yet recovered. Now she is in the process of stabilization, finding herself, unbalanced.

However, I admit another version: Buzova is experimenting to find a man in a different image. After all, for many years she cultivated the image of a good girl: she stood up for family values, loyalty, trust in relationships. But this strategy did not justify itself: the marriage broke up, the romance with the blogger Dava did not lead to anything. Now Buzova seems to be telling us: I can be different, I am different, I am a hooligan. By the way, when she married Dmitry Tarasov, there was no good-girl image yet, but this did not prevent the wedding.

DMITRY SHEPELEV DISARMED THE HATERS

The TV presenter, after long years of fighting for Plato’s son with Zhanna Friske’s parents, learned to hide the child worse than special agents. Taking a photo of Plato is a great success for the paparazzi: you won’t get his pictures on Shepelev’s Instagram. And suddenly the always closed father showed what his youngest son Tikhon, who was born 10 months ago, looks like. The heir to the TV presenter was given birth by the third wife – designer Ekaterina Tulupova.

Dmitry Shepelev first showed the face of his 10-month-old son.

Dmitry Shepelev first showed the face of his 10-month-old son.

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Psychologist’s comment:

– Small children always evoke a positive reaction, disarming haters and critics. Shepelev correctly considered that this is a great way to soften the tense situation around him and Plato. Taking pictures of a baby is a very delicate strategy for entering a public space that has been shaken by family squabbles for many years. The leader wants to change the attitude of society towards himself, and the child is his main ally.

Another important point: correct parenting behavior. So Shepelev teaches the public that he has two sons, and not just Plato. To restore the skewed balance of public attention, little Tikhon must be gradually brought out of the shadows, his public portfolio must be formed. This is absolutely true. As a family psychologist, I often see the unequal attitude of parents towards children: one is more often praised, more often shown on social networks. This leads to great resentment in children.

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